How to Master Phone Sex?

Things have gone from being real hot to being not so hot?  The usual tricks no longer seem to be working? “Do not worry it happens to the best of us,” says Ginny, one of our phone sex operators.

“The trick is not to panic. You did not lose your mojo, you just need a little reminder of how to spice things up,” she explains.

 

It might be the right time to do this if you find yourself thinking, “I do not know what happened. We used to be so wild and could not get enough of one another. The bed used to be our favorite room in the house.” 

 

Want to Know How to Master Phone Sex?   Be S.E.X.Y

 

Share the load

 

Sometimes we expect too much from our partners and want them to do all the work for us. Sex is a selfish act that sometimes needs to be shared. You have been on the receiving end of the call when it started, but things changed in the middle as your partner started to get excited. Allow them to enjoy the call as much as you do. Besides, a partner who is turned on is going to be a much better partner than one who is not into it.

 

Express your feelings

 

Don’t allow the person to feel unwanted. Make them feel sexy, and most importantly appreciated. After all, phone sex is an art form. Leave a cute message for your partner (a thank you works too!) and catch them by surprise. There is nothing sexier than sending a flirty text message to someone while they are at work or all alone. You won’t be for long.

 

Xperiment often

 

If you have been chatting with the same person for a long time you will have to redefine what dirty talk means to both of you. If “vanilla” chat is no longer working for you, why not try something a bit riskier? Explore different fetish topics or even add some video chat into the mix to see if this is something the both of you enjoy.  Tell stories and add roleplay into the mix.  Phone Sex is about imagination and it can get boring quickly if you do not change things up a bit.

Phone Sex is about imagination and it can get boring quickly if you do not change things up a bit.

 

Yearning is the best place to start

Lust is part of sex.  When you get comfortable with each another you may begin to lose the yearning you once had. Bring the excitement back by tapping into some of the naughty things you did early on in the relationship. Anticipation and spontaneous behavior go hand-in-hand when it comes to phone sex.

 


What to do when all else fails?

 

Read some erotic material

 

Do not just read anything. Read something you know will get your partner excited. Use some of the stories to create your own fantasies. There is something very exciting about translating a fantasy into the real thing. You will be surprised at how turned on someone can get just by reading them a page or two.

 

Do what you did before

 

Take one of the most exciting calls you had and take the time recreate it.  Make it even more special by adding some new stuff to the adventure. Reliving some of your past sexual adventures is a great way to bring the sexy back.